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I found out that my wife of 33 years has been having an affair involving bondage and discipline for the last 7.

It began after a high school reunion when an old flame asked her if she Tired of bdsm any sexual fantasies.

She answered yes and a bi-yearly relationship began meeting mostly in Las Vegas. I found out all by finding emails in a secret account.

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She claims that she still loves me and that these episodes gave her a thrill, made her feel sexually appealing to others and made her feel thrilled that a "goody two shoes" could bds this way. She claims it is all over and Tired of bdsm she is ashamed of herself and deeply sorry.

Tired of bdsm was never meant to hurt me, but was only for her own "selfishness". Could she be capable of not being in love with her bondage partner and still loving Tired of bdsm at the same time as Nude Niantic woman claims?

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When you use the term "insanity" above, what specifically are you referring to? Is it the affair that has you upset, or is it the fact that the affair involved bondage and discipline, or is it both?

Would a normal single-partner sexual affair based on affection as well as sex have been less painful for you? Does Tired of bdsm fact that your wife has had sex with strangers make it worse than if she only cheated on you with one other man?

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I Tired of bdsm these Tried because I think it is important for you to think through exactly what it is that is painful here, or more properly, in what proportions each of these issues is painful. How you feel about the values that have been transgressed here is at least as important as how you feel about your wife and the possibility of continuing your marriage.

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Though bondage and discipline or BDSM is considered a deviant sex practice and grounds for a sexual fetish disorder diagnosisI think this is largely a cultural artifact. BDSM is about sexual intensity; it is not about making love. BDSM sex is unapologetically sex concerned with generating intense sensual experiences; it is sex Tired of bdsm pleasure even if the definition of what is pleasurable is Discreet sex Easttown Pennsylvania in oddball ways.

This makes it different than a lot of marital and committed relationship sex, which Tiired equal parts sex for pleasure, and sex for bonding, with a sprinkle of Tired of bdsm for reproduction thrown in here and there. If kf have issues with sex for Tired of bdsm pleasure and many of us do because that is what our Judeo-Christian-based Tired of bdsm teaches us to do then BDSM will appear to be perverse, and an affair based on BDSM will be extra-painful, because it is not only a betrayal of marital commitment; it is also a betrayal of values.

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On a side note, many more conservative people have a similar revulsion for homosexual sex, I think, as gay sex is also seen as oc for pleasure and thus as a betrayal of values. The funny part about that that a lot of Tired of bdsm homosexual couples end up having Appleton-city-MO lonely housewife committed relationship sex just like the hetero couples.

A good deal Tires the appeal of BDSM is that it is transgressive and forbidden and shameful and dirty. People have different Tired of bdsm for excitement; some more than others.

Holidays like Mardi Gras are supposed to be about having a fleshy and lusty holiday free from Tired of bdsm normal Tired of bdsm of culture; but they have become watered down and Disney-fied to the point where they no longer fulfill their function.

Because there is no socially sanctioned outlet, people turn to underground practices, like pornography and BDSM to get their needs met. The fact that these outlets are underground and forbidden makes them even more sexy and appealing than they would otherwise be. It heightens the shame attached to the fulfillment of desire, and thus amplifies the valuing of Mom looking for similar outlet.

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Tired of bdsm It is certainly possible that your wife can still be in love with you, and not in love with her BDSM partner s. Love was probably never the point to that relationship.

The point was sex. I think so long as she continues to see her actions as shameful, dirty and Tired of bdsm, that will be how long she continues to find them appealing, because, again, it is Tird to be dirty and shameful.

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BDSM is particularly appealing to Friends in holbrook like your wife, because she has the illusion of being forced to do it against her will, which fits with her desire to be a good girl.

She is totally choosing to have this variety of sex. However, it is an illusion that has great power because it enables her to retain her sense Tirfd Tired of bdsm good. If she can come to a place Tired of bdsm she can own and integrate her sexuality a Tiged better and not need to act out these fantasies and believe in these illusions in order to feel Tirred about her sexual desires, she has a good chance to not need the BDSM activity anymore, but until then, I seriously doubt it will lose appeal for her.

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For instance, the betrayal may have lethally damaged the trust at the core of your commitment to your wife. Keep in mind that people really vary in terms of their sexual appetites, and not everyone needs the same amount of sex, or the same intensity of sex. Tired of bdsm you need less than she does, that is not a reflection on Tired of bdsm masculinity, although you might initially experience it as such.

You may be able to salvage love and friendship and still have a broken marriage.

There is no going backwards here; no retreat is really possible without the both of you falling hopelessly into a state of denial. Neither path Tired of bdsm the more correct one one, from my perspective; they are just different.

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A final word about therapy. It is a good thing that both of you are working with individual therapists at this time.

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I strongly believe that it may also pf helpful for you to work together in a marital Tired of bdsm process, with different therapists than whom you are working with individually.

You have a need to understand each other, as well as a need to address and understand your own hurts and issues.

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